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The Green Dream . . . .

August 4th 2008 21:17
Yesterday we were forced by fate to have a family member of five years ‘put to sleep’.

Having led somewhat of a wretched life before being adopted into the Nice Guy household – this six-year-old golden Labrador finally found a place where she could eat, sleep and play to her hearts’ content – much to the angst of her older and sometimes less enthusiastic male partner.


Rambunctious, energetic and sometimes downright mischievious, she was a never-the-less a vital cog in the Nice Guy household – a four-legged legacy to fun and spontaneity – one that wasn’t always understood – but one that was no doubt making up for lost time given her early life.

Best described as ‘Mad as a March Hare’, she was none-the-less loyal, a staunch guardian with a gentle heart with what can only be described as an overly exuberant and loving nature.

However, yesterday (having once before beaten what had been categorised as merely a cyst) the diagnosis wasn’t good.

Having been off her food for days – the family vet prepared us for what almost seemed inevitable in her own eyes – that there was a pasture somewhere in need of her vivacity – and it was time we let her go.

The calling was quick – less than a week from being as ‘silly as a cut snake’ to trying her best to keep up a brave front in the face of what surely was an rampaging tumour which knew no compassion.

When the phone call finally came – and the verdict delivered – she was already fast asleep on the operating table – no doubt simply waiting only for the length of her dream to be extended by what veterinarians label 'the green dream' - in essence a over prefusion of administered anesthetic.


To say making that final decision is never easy is to be too colloquial.

But sometimes - you just know when it’s the right time.

In her own way she told me.

We will miss her.
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Comment by Chris Champion

August 4th 2008 23:17
You gave me goosebumps. It's a price we pay for their friendship, I suppose, knowing that we must lose them for one reason or another after just a few years, but it's a high price. Your post is a lovely farewell.

Regards,
Chris

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 4th 2008 23:21
Chris

Thank you.

Stay well

Comment by Two Guys Sports

August 5th 2008 02:30
MNG,

So sorry to hear about your loss. I so dread the day that happens with our rat terriers or cats. I guess the only way to handle it is to know there was something wrong enough to make her miserable, and that she is now in a better place. Just keep in mind she will always be with you in your memories. You should share some pictures if you can get them onto the computer.

Gene

Comment by Rosemary

August 5th 2008 03:04
So sorry for your loss MNG.

It's the hardest decision ever and the day we dread.

She's up there in the stars. Take care and give yourself lots of time. R.

Comment by Two Guys Sports

August 5th 2008 03:26
MNG,

After reading your post I went and posted my "Image of the Day" post with you in mind. Hope they work.

I don't want to include a link here, but to make it easier for you to find it is on the Blog America site.

Gene

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 5th 2008 04:08
Gene

Thanks champ.

The kids were obviously a little distressed last night and coping with it in their own way.

The most affected at present is the male labrador - who is constantly looking for his mate and was pining this morning with the occassional howl.

Cheers

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 5th 2008 04:10
Rosemary

You're right - there will be another star looking down on us tonight.

Thank you

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 5th 2008 04:17
Gene

Just been over to Blog America - and yes - there's some great stuff there.

Thanks for the head's up on the pooch site as well.

Stay sane.

Comment by Tracy

August 5th 2008 06:33
Hello MNG

It's so hard to say goodbye even when you know it's coming.

Sending thoughts to you and your family,

Tracy

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 5th 2008 07:07
Hey Trace

Thank you.

A bit new age senstive I guess - but you're right - it's never easy - particularly when something or someone relies on you to make the decisions for them on a daily basis.

Then to play God in essence is a tough role - despite the fact you think you know what's best given all the information.

It's all in the eyes - they tell you what you really need to know - but probably don't want to hear.

Comment by JohnDoe

August 5th 2008 07:22
Tragic my friend, I have been there.

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 5th 2008 07:30
JD

Thanks brother.


Comment by Deanna B

August 5th 2008 07:38
What an awesome tribute to your dear friend. I know it's painful. I've been in your shoes...but this isn't the right time or place for my story.
My heart aches for each one in your home after losing such a special member of your family.
She was blessed to have so much love and loyalty,for as long as she did.

Comment by Cheryl J

August 5th 2008 15:34
A lovely farewell MNG. We had the same decision with a much loved furry member of my family earlier this year.

My heart is with you in the loss of your loveable rogue. A big virtual hug for you and your family xo

Comment by TimmyH

August 5th 2008 16:09
did you hear the story about the homeless dogs at UQ?

Comment by Morgan Bell

August 5th 2008 17:33
that was a really sad story, beautifully told . . .

losing a pet is just so sad, but when they are sick and in pain you have to do the right thing for them . . . they become so much like people once they have been with the family for awhile, its very hard to say goodbye

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 5th 2008 23:16
Deanna B

She had a way about her - and mischief was sometimes her middle name - but in life it's so often the case that those who choose to wear the brightest colours are the ones you remember - not necessarily those who wear biege.

Thank you for your sentiments

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 5th 2008 23:25
Cheryl J

What pains us even more at the moment is the fact her partner in crime - is still looking for her - and we just can't explain this to the old fella.

Thanks

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 5th 2008 23:25
Timmy H

No

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 5th 2008 23:28
Morgan Bell

It's the coming home and expecting a bundle of energy whose both excited and out and out silly about it that gets you.

There's a sombre mood right now - but the world still revolves and brighter days are just around the corner I'm sure.

Thanks for caring

Comment by Miswanderlust

August 8th 2008 03:37
MNG
Please hug the MNG clan for me. I am so sorry for your loss. Pets are our "life witnesses": Not only do our animals provide us with their uninhibited emotional expression, but they also allow us to express parts of ourselves that we may never let other humans see. I am so sorry that you guys had to make such a difficult decision.

Mis

Comment by Mr Nice Guy

August 8th 2008 03:51
Mis

Thanks.

'LIfe witnesses' - what a fitting term!

Stay well

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