Why Are Single Women Attracted to Married Men?
July 10th 2009 08:03
You've been single longer than a cheese slice and no matter how good the pick-up lines, you come away looking or like loser.
Then, having decided that no matter how many bicep curls you do at the gym during the week or how much David Beckom aftershave you wear - when it comes down to it all you really have left is your dignity.
That's when you notice the bar a guy - who really isn't trying too hard. Well dressed but hardly another Fabio in designer demin, whose getting an abnormally high amount of attention and knee-slapping laughs from attractive women.
The same women who didn't even pay you a ounce of attention.
What's more he's wearing a wedding band.
So what gives?
Like a moth to a flame, it seems some single women are drawn to a man in a relationship.
Coincidence- or is there reasoning behind this phenomenon?
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Comment by Jason King
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1) I once read that attached men give off a stronger pheromone as they are already sexually active and this drives sexually hungry people into a frenzy (so to speak). This is why if you are single for ages and ages and then you get lucky and start dating someone - as soon as this happens you are more attractive to others and opportunity keeps slapping you in the face. Of which you have the mental dillemna of guilt coupled with the "One in the hand is worth two in the bush" syndrome.
2) Some women enjoy the challenge
3) Other women (or gay gents) feel more comfortable around an attached person as they feel safe and that there is no sexual energy there - problem with this one is that they then relax and let down there guard and then point 1 comes into effect.
Comment by Journeywoman
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4) he's been given a seal of approval by another woman.
Comment by Mr Nice Guy
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Nice theories.
I think point 2. is more prevalent than many people realise - or so I'm led to believe . . .
Good onya champion
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What the . . . ?
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It's funny how the men (in the main) can't, or choose not to, see the proverbial prowler - whereas women see them a mile off.
Is this evolutionary?
Comment by Morgan Bell
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think about it, is it harder to steal another womans husband, already broken of all his bad habits, or is it harder to start fresh with an inexperienced recruit?
its all about time management
Comment by Journeywoman
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MNG, you mean the female prowler? Yeah we can spot her for sure, but most are clever enough to avoid detection by the 'owning' female. As for whether it's evolutionary.... I could only speculate. What do you reckon?
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On the other hand, I'm single and have been for quite some time and most of the men who flirt or proposition me are married. What gives with that?
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Comment by Mr Nice Guy
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Broken of all bad habits or sometimes just broken
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I would've thought the single girl would have been more interested in the adventure of a brazen colt than simply a trail ride . . .
As for the prowler - they certainly make an art form of hijacking that's for sure.
Stay well
Comment by Mr Nice Guy
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But do you feel more comfortable in the company of these guys knowing that all they really have to offer is good humour, conversation and a safe (well relatively) outlook?
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I guess they're the tyre kicking types with no intention of ever buying.
It's the old check out the menu but eat at home mentality I assume.
Call their bluff one day and watch them squirm . . .
LYW
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And I'm guessing you're one of the untouchables?
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I suppose he had proven himself to be a fertile male, or maybe it was just jealousy?
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Comment by Nick Lawton
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I'm not Mr. Nice Guy, but I understand you're thinking. After I got together with my girlfriend, more guys were leaving her wall posts on her Facebook and it flowing through the grapevine that the ex before me wasn't over her and trying to get her back.
All I can say is, if she really loves you and is worth the love between the two of you, she'll stay where she is.
Wow...ok getting off romantic soapbox now....